Thursday, August 15, 2013

Dad Lifting His Arm


PJ came up yesterday to visit and while at my parent’s house, he recorded Dad lifting his right arm, something he has been actively working on with his physical therapist. I have not been able to sit in on PT or OT with Dad so I have not been able to see what he’s been doing there. The following video will show you the progress that continues to be made, almost nine months into the recovery of this stroke. I’m not going to lie, it’s pretty impressive, especially when I think of how he was at the beginning of this year when everything happened. Dad, though, still doesn’t see it. But the rest of us who have been here through it all do. I said to him last night, “Do you remember how excited we all were when you could lift your leg up off the bed? You were still wheelchair bound, not even walking at that point and we were so excited. A year from now when you have improved even more I will say to you, remember how excited we were when you could lift your arm up to your chest from a standing position?”
As our powerful minds can produce feelings of depression, paranoia, fear and a host of other emotions that in turn can manifest into physical ailments we suffer from, so too the opposite holds true. With positivism and hard work, our minds, damaged seemingly beyond belief, have the power to mend and find new ways to connect with the rest of our bodies to relearn what was once learned, to reconnect what has been severed. It’s a beautiful thing that continues to astound me. Check out the link above, hope you enjoy!

 

Monday, August 12, 2013

Returning to Church

The highlight to a stellar weekend in Maine and a personal triumph on my part, after four months I managed to get Mom and Dad to return to their church this past Sunday. It was something I knew would be good for them, especially Dad, as I try to get him out socializing more. He had resisted this idea of going back to church for quite a while now. I learned a long time ago you can’t make someone do something they don’t want to do. You have to be patient and wait for them to come to the idea themselves, should that be what they choose. That’s not to say; however, that I didn’t mention it to him every week, because I did. What can I say I don’t like to give up. 
In the end they went. I dropped them off for the service and then headed out for what I needed to do (there is always something that needs to be done and no rest for the wicked). An hour or so later when I went back to pick them up, I was waiting in the main entrance when Pastor Elaine came out of the worship area and was waiting to say hi to everyone as they readied to exit. She saw me across the room and smiled. “What a great surprise this morning! I had no idea, this was wonderful!” she exclaimed. I replied, “Well they wanted to come back. It took a while but here they are.” I smiled. When we left, both of them admitted to me how good it was to go back and be back. If they decide to go next week, I’ll drive them again and continue to drive them every week for as long as they want to return.

Monday, August 5, 2013

Making his way through Wal-Mart



This is a better video of Dad driving through Wal-Mart. He has become quite adept at using those little carts! I get a kick out of it. Enjoy!